I’ve hosted Christmas parties for teens and adults for over twenty years, both at home and in youth ministry. In that time, I’ve tried lots of things that went well, plus a few that were flops.
In this post I’m sharing my best Christmas party ideas for teens and tweens that will be remembered long after the holiday season. I’ll cover best ideas for themes, fun Christmas activities, and creative games to play.
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This list includes a variety of things to do with large groups or small groups. It’s also great for teens with varying interests and personalities, whether they are introverted or extroverted.
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17 teenage Christmas party theme ideas
I love themed parties! Party guests know what to expect (great for those who need predictability or who struggle with anxiety). Plus, it makes the whole event come together easily, from decor to food to costumes to activities.
1. Merry & bright neon party
Skip the traditional red and green for neon blue, hot pink, and lime green. Glow sticks, black lights, and neon face paint create a fun twist for the Christmas season. This would be so much fun for a youth Christmas party at a church!
2. Reindeer Games party
A night of active, silly challenges that’s perfect for energetic middle schoolers or those who love a friendly competition. Plan to include “Reindeer Ring Toss,” relay races, and your favorite Minute-to-Win-It games (see below for ideas).
3. White Elephant gift exchange
Start with a super small budget – I’d suggest $5 or less. Everyone brings a gift to exchange, wrapped creatively.
The best gift I ever saw at our youth Christmas party? A single plastic straw inside a massive wrapped box. We all about died laughing!
Once someone wrapped their gift in so many layers of Saran Wrap that it took me over ten minutes to open… no scissors allowed!
4. “Small but mighty” Christmas gathering
If you have a lot of introverted or sensory-sensitive young people, this might be the perfect fit. Create a “hygge” get-together using soft lighting (or candles), quiet crafts, mellow games, and cozy snacks.
5. Retro Christmas party (’80s, ’90s, or Y2K)
Choose an era and go all in. Encourage teens to dress up for the decade, play some throwback Christmas songs, and go for it. Plan to serve retro snacks or take Polaroid photos to complete the fun.
6. Cozy Christmas Eve pajama party
Everyone arrives in their comfiest Christmas pajamas (don’t forget the slippers and stuffed animals). Add blankets, cocoa, and soft lights, then spend the evening relaxing.
You could also add in some spa care like face masks and manicures. This party works especially well with a smaller group of close friends.
7. Winter Wonderland
If you’re tapped out on Christmas spirit, a winter wonderland theme is a great way to shake things up. Think white lights, snowflakes, and icy blue decor.
Older kids and young adults who tend towards being a “Grinch” may appreciate the elegance and unique focus. Plus it’s a great option to be more inclusive for those who don’t specifically celebrate Christmas.
8. Ugly Christmas sweater bash
This is a party classic. The uglier the sweater, the better. Award prizes for “Most Festive,” “Most Chaotic,” or “Looks Like Grandma’s Couch.”
You can also buy ugly Christmas sweater cookies to decorate or serve, and themed party decor. Or encourage guests to bring their own ugly sweaters and decorate them for Christmas at the party!
9. Christmas movie night party
Pick some classic Christmas movies and set up a cozy viewing area. Everyone can vote on the lineup when they arrive. Serve movie snacks and play games like movie bingo or trivia challenges to keep the fun going.
10. Gingerbread showdown
Working individually or in teams, teens create epic gingerbread houses (or use graham crackers instead). At the end of a set period, adult leaders judge the final structures.
Hand out random awards like:
- “Most Structurally Questionable”
- “Most Candy on a Single Roof”
- “Most Likely to Attract Ants”
Be warned – this party theme is likely to become one of your annual Christmas traditions once you start it!
11. Santa’s Workshop
Set up stations with ornaments, gift tags, and simple DIY decor. Creative teens will love working on projects together while they chat, and they’ll leave with gifts for others or beautiful art.
12. Christmas costume party
Encourage teens to dress as anything festive. Some suggestions include elves, trees, reindeer, angels, or gift-wrapped friends!
13. Hot cocoa bar & game night
I’m a fan of keeping it simple, and that’s what this idea is all about. Set up a hot chocolate bar with various toppings. Then put out some board games, card games, or holiday-themed challenges and let everyone mill around.
14. Baking party
When our family was mostly younger kids, holiday baking was overwhelming. However my teens can now bake cookies, treats, or mini pies with very little assistance from me, and many teens love to bake.
Set up your kitchen table or counter with ingredients and several easy recipes, then let guests have at it. Best of all, everyone can help with cleanup afterwards.
Just be prepared for creative “mistakes”—like the salted snowman cookie I once bit into!
15. Classic “red and green” Christmas party
Pick two colors and decorate boldly. Ask friends to arrive dressed in red or green – you could even create teams based on the color they’re wearing. Add in some matching snacks and drinks for even more fun.
16. Christmas around the world
Learn about how cultures around the world enjoy the holiday season, then go all in. Serve international foods and decorate accordingly, and see if there are unique traditions to participate in.
17. Christmas in July/ beach party Christmas
Throw out the traditional “White Christmas” ideas for a tropical or beach Christmas theme. Encourage everyone to come dressed in summer clothes or tropical themes. Decorate with flamingos, pineapples, and more.
21 Christmas party activities for teens and tweens
These activities are perfect for teens who enjoy a relaxed, cozy vibe. They work well at the start of the party, between high-energy games, or as stations teens can wander between.
1. Christmas mystery box challenge
Here’s an easy game to implement. Fill small boxes or paper bags with “mystery” holiday items like tinsel, pinecones, ribbon, marshmallows. Teens have to reach in reach in and guess what they’re touching without looking.
For more fun, label everyday items with funny names, like chocolate covered raisins for “reindeer poop” – sure to elicit laughs!
2. Candy cane hunt
Hide candy canes around the house or yard – some in easy spots, others impossible or hard to reach. Offer a prize to whoever finds the most.
3. DIY photo backdrop
Ask your teens to create a photo wall with wrapping paper, bows, and cardboard props. Then let them have at it with their camera phones for silly or festive photos.
4. Christmas sock exchange
Everyone brings a wrapped pair of fun Christmas socks to exchange. You can either do this “hot potato” style or by rolling dice.
5. Silent gift auction
Grab the Monopoly money and give each teen a small pile of “holiday bucks.” Lay out silly wrapped gifts, snacks, or small prizes. Each guest bids silently on the things they want.
6. DIY snow globe station
All you need for this craft idea are small jars, glycerin, glitter, and mini figures. This makes a great option for neurodivergent teens who need to decompress from other activities for a few minutes.
7. Christmas TikTok challenge
Some teens love drama and dance. Have them work together to recreate trending holiday dances or parody Christmas carols together. You can also include duets, group challenges, or “elves’ POV” videos.
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8. “Wrap a friend” game
In this classic game, teams race to wrap one team member in wrapping paper. Teens who don’t want to wrap can act as judges and pick winners based on neatness, creativity, or pure comedy.
9. Christmas bingo
This works great for movie nights or dance parties. Create bingo cards with holiday traditions, movie quotes, and funny moments. Teens check squares off as the night goes on, and the winners get small prizes.
10. DIY snowflake station
Set out scissors and paper with the challenge: make the weirdest, most creative snowflake possible. Artistic teenagers often get really into this, resulting in beautiful and unique designs.
11. Cookie decorating station
If you don’t want to do full-on baking, a cookie decorating station can be a nice alternative. Set out cookies, frosting, sprinkles, and toppings. Everyone can eat their cookies at the party, or take them home to share later.
12. DIY Christmas ornament table
You’ll need clear ornaments, glitter, paint pens, fake snow, ribbons, and maybe some bells. This way everyone gets to take home a fun party favor!
13. Letter writing station
I’ve found that teens are often incredibly thoughtful and kind. Provide a station with cards, envelopes, and pens for writing:
- Christmas cards
- Encouraging notes
- Holiday thank-you letters
14. “Never Have I Ever” Christmas edition
An icebreaker that gets older students talking. One person in the middle of a circle says something they’ve never done that they think someone else in the group HAS done.
Examples:
- “Never have I ever finished a whole advent calendar early.”
- “Never have I ever wrapped a gift in a cereal box.”
Whoever HAS done that thing has to switch seats, and the person in the middle scrambles to grab an empty seat. Laughs and chaotic fun guaranteed!
Download our free printable version of “Never Have I Ever Christmas Edition” here.
15. Winter craft corner
Set out some mini craft kits on a table, or card making supplies and let guests spend time creating. It’s great for kids who struggle socially or just need to decompress for awhile.
Here’s a few ideas:
- Mini wreath kits
- Paper snowflakes
- Beaded garlands
- Stickers and paper crafts
16. Saran wrap ball game
Wrap small prizes in layers of plastic wrap to form a huge ball. The first person unwraps while the second person rolls dice until they get doubles. Then the ball moves to the second person and a third person rolls for doubles.
17. Christmas coloring pages & gel pens/ markers
Coloring pages offer a low-key way to unwind. My teens especially love mandalas or intricate pictures with lots of detail.
18. Board game zone
Choose games teens actually enjoy, like:
19. Holiday puzzle table
Our entire family participates in this on Christmas Day and other holidays. Set out a Christmas jigsaw puzzle. Anyone can drop by and work on it for a few minutes. It’s perfect for introverts and sensory-sensitive teens.
20. Make-your-own stockings
Buy plain stockings and set out fabric markers, patches, and ribbon. Teens enjoy customizing their own stocking to take home.
21. Make a mini Christmas village
Give your teens shoebox lids, cardboard scraps, and craft supplies. They build tiny houses or shops. It becomes a whole village by the end.
16 high-energy Christmas party games
These fast, funny, slightly chaotic games will keep teens laughing and moving.
1. Christmas charades
Make a list of holiday movies, traditions, or winter objects. There’s no better way to create memories than by watching someone pantomime “stuck in a chimney” or “wrapping gifts badly.”
2. Reindeer antler ring toss
One teen wears inflatable antlers while others toss rings and try to land them. This game is 80% skill and 20% laughter.
3. Holiday scavenger hunt
Send teens around the house, neighborhood, or event space to find Christmas-themed items. We’ve got a free printable version, or make your own.
4. Christmas escape room
Create clues and puzzles that lead teens around the house or property. Themes like “Find Santa’s Missing List” or “Save the Elf Workshop” work great. You can also buy a premade escape room kit if you need something quick and easy.
5. Christmas karaoke or Guess the Tune
Break the ice with holiday classics and goofy performances. Karaoke works great later in the evening when people feel more relaxed.
For another fun game, play parts of old Christmas carols and see who can identify the name of the song first.
6. 15 minute-to-win-it Christmas games
Teens love quick games with instant payoff. Split kids into groups and have them compete to see who does the best in 60 seconds. Here are my top picks:
-Candy Cane Hook ’Em
Use one candy cane to hook others off a string.
-Snowball Scoop
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Transfer cotton-ball “snowballs” from one bowl to another with a spoon.
-Ornament Stack
Stack plastic ornaments into a tower.
-Reindeer Antler Ring Toss (listed above)
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-Gingerbread Cookie Face-Off
Move cookies from your forehead down to your mouth.
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-Present Wrap Race
Wrap a gift in one minute.
-Jingle Bell Shake
Shake an empty tissue box full of bells (attached to waist by a belt) until they fall out.
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-Elf Bowling
Knock down elf-decorated cups with a soft ball.
-Frosty Straw Race
Move cotton balls with a straw from one bowl to another.
-Holiday Hat Stack
Stack as many Santa hats on your head as possible.
-Santa’s Beard Relay
Stick cotton balls to your face with tape in a relay race.
-Candy Corn Catch
Toss and catch candy corn in your mouth.
-Christmas Card Shuffle
Sort Christmas cards into categories before time runs out.
-Nutcracker Balance Challenge
Balance a tiny nutcracker through a simple obstacle course.
-Mistletoe Madness
A tag-style game where “it” tries to tag others by holding mistletoe above them.
7. Christmas piñata
Fill a piñata with wrapped candies and small holiday trinkets. You’d be surprised how many teens LOVE piñatas!
8. Reindeer relay race
Set up a simple relay with funny challenges. Think “gallop like a reindeer,” “deliver a present,” or “dash under a table.”
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9. Christmas Pictionary
Use holiday-themed prompts and let players draw on a whiteboard while their team tries to guess what they’re drawing. The worse the drawing, the bigger the laughs.
10. Hot cocoa taste test
Pick a few cocoa mixes and let teens try them blindfolded. Then rank flavors from “Amazing” to “Absolutely Not.”
11. Snowball target toss
Use soft “snowballs” or balled-up socks. Place buckets or rings on the floor at different distances and award points for each one.
12. Christmas ‘Would You Rather’
Create a list of holiday-themed choices and let players vote. For example: “Peppermint everything or gingerbread everything?”; “Elf or How the Grinch Stole Christmas?”
13. Christmas light challenge
Turn off the lights and give each person a flashlight. Hide Christmas objects around the house (like ornaments, bows, or small treats) and let your kids search in the dark.
14. Peppermint tower challenge
Give players peppermints and frosting, or glue dots. Pairs or teams build the tallest tower possible in a specific amount of time.
15. Pass the present
Wrap a small prize in many layers. Players pass it around while music plays. Whoever holds it when the music stops gets to unwrap one layer.
16. Holiday Headbands Game
Write holiday words on cards. Teens stick one card on their forehead and ask other people yes/no questions to guess their word. Words like “snowman,” “mistletoe,” or “gingerbread house” work great.
9 Outdoor & group Christmas activities teens will love
1. Christmas lights photo walk
Take teens around the neighborhood (or a local decorated street) to admire Christmas lights. Encourage them to take creative photos, selfies, and group shots.
2. Winter bonfire & s’mores station
Bundle up, grab blankets, and enjoy a warm outdoor fire. Guests can roast marshmallows, make s’mores, or tell funny Christmas stories. This is perfect for sensory-sensitive teens who find indoor spaces crowded or claustrophobic.
3. Snow Games (if you’re lucky!)
Older teens and even young adults aren’t too old to enjoy traditional snow play. If you live somewhere snowy, try:
- Snowman-building contest
- Snowball dodgeball
- Snow painting with spray bottles
- Snow fort challenge
4. Ice skating party
Have friends meet at the local ice skating rink for the party. Warm up with soup or cocoa afterwards.
5. Outdoor Christmas movie night
Hang up a white sheet or use an outdoor projector screen. Set up blankets and cushions, cocoa, and popcorn or movie snacks. Then watch your favorite holiday movie together.
6. Community service Christmas event
Teenagers are often looking for activities with purpose. Have a party that involves a random act of kindness, like:
- Packing shoeboxes for Operation Christmas Child
- Buying and donating gifts through a giving tree
- Performing together at a retirement home
- Collecting warm socks or coats for unhoused shelters
7. Christmas tree farm adventure
Visit a local farm for hot drinks, fun photo ops, and seasonal activities. A lot of Christmas tree farms also offer hayrides, craft vendors, food trucks, or wreath-making classes.
8. Holiday train ride
Some towns run special holiday train rides or themed railcars. A Christmas train event can be so much fun with a group of friends!
9. Christmas parade
Bundle up and take teens to your city’s holiday parade. For even more fun, see if they can get involved with passing out candy, or suggest that they come in costume.
Christmas food ideas for teen parties
Food is essential for any teen gathering! I recommend keeping it simple, flexible, and customizable. With so many special dietary challenges and food sensitivities, most teen appreciate multiple options.
1. Build-Your-Own Hot Chocolate Bar
Supplies:
- Cocoa mix
- Whipped cream
- Chocolate chips
- Peppermint pieces
- Flavored syrups
- Marshmallows in every shape and size
2. Taco bar or nacho bar
This has been a lifesaver over the years. Most teenagers can find something they like at a taco or nacho bar. We usually include:
- Seasoned meat or beans
- Tortillas
- Cheese
- Rice
- Lettuce
- Salsa
- Chips
- Sour cream
- Guacamole
3. Baked potato bar
This is another budget-friendly, customizable option that’s easy to prep ahead of time. Here’s a list of possible toppings:
- Cheese
- Bacon bits
- Broccoli
- Chili
- Ranch
- Butter and sour cream
4. Dessert buffet
A dessert table makes the whole party feel festive. Here’s a few suggestions:
- Christmas cookies
- Peppermint brownies
- Fudge squares
- Snowball cookies
- A big bowl of candy canes
5. Christmas charcuterie board
Our kids and teens LOVE charcuterie, and there are tons of creative ideas to build a board on Pinterest.
Sensory-friendly party tips
If you’re hosting neurodivergent young people with sensory needs, these simple adjustments make a big difference.
Offer both high-energy and low-energy zones. Allow guests to move between loud games, craft corners, and a quiet “chill space” with soft lighting.
You’ll want to pay attention to noise levels throughout the event. Turn down the music during games, and keep one room quieter for those who need breaks.
A Merry Christmas with your teens and tweens
Plenty of teens and preteens still love the magic of Christmas – they just may not show it as openly. Use these Christmas party ideas for teens to build a night that works for your group, whether loud, quiet, crafty, silly or competitive.
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